Day 11: Be Positive
Always think with which kind of people would you like to be, people who are humorous and have a positive attitude or with nagging complaint boxes? In the same way, if you are a person who always opens up complaints, you would never have people attracted to you. All of us problems in life and we ought to face them. Hence there is no point in pondering of them. Instead , develop the habit of being positive, being cheerful all the time and make your friends laugh. You would be welcomed whole heartedly in all groups.
Day 12: Have a role model in life
We all are influenced by one person or the other. And the reason of getting influenced is only because we like their personality. Observing them , taking advice from them and getting answers from them when in a crises is the best way of improving ones` personality.
Day 13: Believe in Yourself
Doubting yourself, it like letting you down in all means. Believe in yourself. Trust in the YOU, that you can achieve it. Keep saying that to yourself and you could see the difference that attitude brings about. What you wanted to accomplish , could be done, but just believing in yourself that you could do it.
Day 14 : Reflect Confidence
Most of the time, people confuse personality with appearance. Personality does not mean smart looks and beautiful appearance. It is just straight and simple. The confidence in your eyes, the sternness in your voice and your body language is all what counts for the right kind of personality.
Day 15 : Variety is the spice of life
Day 16: Do not shout
Day 17: Know when to argue
Sometimes you might have a difference of opinion in a matter, that does not mean that only you are right and the other person is wrong. Accept their views, if they are right. You can go wrong at times. People would respect you for understanding rather than trying to impose your views, even if the are not right.
Day 18: Be there for others.
At times , your friends or someone whom you are attached may be in a tough situation. Defend them, and they would be with gratitude all through their life. This shows that you care and you would be there for them during tough times. This creates a positive feel and you would also be helped when in need.
Day 19: Body Language
Body language is one aspect where you are being assessed without much effort by others. Look in the eye when you talk, that shows your confidence. Never talk looking at the feet. Stand tall, never stoop. Give a firm shake hand, hold your head high. Always carry a pleasant smile, it does not cost you anything, but has great returns.
Day 20 : Motivate
Day 21: Create a Trademark for yourself
When you are different and special in a unique way, people will remember you even if they meet you only once. Leaving back a trademark, is the best way to flatter yourself for all the positive vibes that you hold and being the owner of a great personality.
By following these simple methodologies in your daily activities, you could observe the change that you bring about in you as well as with all whom you are associated with. You would be noticed, respected, appreciated and even be made a role model for someone else!!! When you help others to get better, you help yourself to become the best.
We as humans , have the power to shape our personalities the way we wish to. When we develop ourselves, in all best possible manners, we contribute not only to ourself, but also to others.
I hope with this simple article, I could help those who are in the look out of developing a good personality without being evidently noticed or for those who do not like saying about it. Implement it and see the remarkable difference in yourself. A guide to a New You for the coming years…….